Feeling lonely?

Feeling lonely?

Have you ever had a feeling, the feeling of being all alone, the feeling of being lonely and thinking that you have no one? That feeling is so weird, it makes you restless, anxious, it makes you under confident sometimes, it makes you scared that what I am going to do now? 

This feeling is so strong sometimes that it literally feels that there's  a gaping hole in your chest which will just swallow you completely and the worst part is that you can’t seem to do anything about it. This feeling of loneliness carves a deep impression on your soul that even if you have a loving group of friends and a healthy-happy relationship you feel lonely. According to you no one can understand your situation, your problems, no one can match with your thoughts, your vibes, and also you are not ready for the reactions which you will get if you share it with others. I guess everyone of us have these days where we don’t wanna talk, just want to be by ourselves and don’t want to feel anything? Sometimes you look into the mirror and feel so annoyed and start hating your own self. I Want to tell you guys that this feeling is totally normal and it happens to all of us. There are times when we just want to avoid human interactions. Some of you might get in mixed with Depression it trivializes the symptoms but most of the time it is not so. 

You may experience this feeling sooner or later however you have to recall that it is a stage and you are strong enough to get over it. As you grow up this acknowledgment begins taking over your mind. You may feel that you are the main disastrous one, or the issues throughout your life never appear to end. In any case, on the off chance that you really look around, you will see that there are individuals who are struggling to get up each day, there are individuals who are trying hard to understand themselves, there are individuals who are having a go at battling their past or society or their own folks. We invest a lot of energy in web based life (Facebook, Instagram, Twitter) swiping left, right, for the duration of the day and look at our carries on with, our satisfaction, accomplishments, injuries, and even our connections and fellowships with individuals, half of which we have never met.

Is it safe to say that we aren't at that point to feel alone regardless of whether we have many individuals who will be there for us to fall back to? We can't flee from web based life, or disconnect ourselves as it have turned into a piece of our way of life We can not be trying to claim ignorance that No we don't feel lonely or we are not all that shallow as to look at our lives. That will be plain inept. 

We should simply recognize and acknowledge the manner in which we feel. We need not flee from it. Let this feeling consume you totally. Feel it, because if you don't , you won't ever figure out how to swim or fly! Our age needs to be progressively open with individuals about their thought process. We keep things with ourselves and don't impart it to anybody and sooner or later we feel choked with the weight we are conveying.

It's alright to have this feeling of being lonely and it's alright to not have anybody on your side. What's more important is that how you manage it? Take a walk or go for a drive while listening to that loud music. have faith in yourself, consider your accomplishments and give yourself time. Go out shop for yourself, or get yourself a massage and appreciate yourself. 

 (Remember that scene from Dear zindagi, Jab khul kar ro nhi sakogi toh khul ke has kaise paaogi?)

While this topic doesn't generally have an end. I might simply want to wrap it up by saying that time can be challenging or can be extremely overwhelming for all of us. How we manage is makes a difference. 

Look into the mirror and tell yourself a hundred times 

"These things and emotions don't make a difference because you know sweetheart, you have the entire universe within you and you are sufficient to get past anything."

                     Picture Credit :- Aniket Bhandari.