THE SILENCE OF LATE NIGHT

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THE SILENCE OF LATE NIGHT.


“I’m in love with the 3 am version of people - Honest, Vulnerable, and real. “

 

The time between 3 am to 5 am takes you to your most vulnerable and honest state of mind. It brings out all the raw emotions that you carry deep down and also brings out the real you.

Your 3 am personality is a part of you that hardly anyone knows. All these emotions which hide themselves from the sunshine come out. You will be happy without any reason or  may feel sad for loosing opportunities and/or people. You might regret the mistakes you made. Sometimes, you miss those who used to be closest to you.

This is the reason that makes late night conversations a lot more different from than the conversations you have during the daytime. The darkness helps you put your guard down.  We all live in a facade

  where we pretend things are going good. But around 3 am, you can stop pretending for a while because there is nobody watching you, no noise, lights or people.

 

Sometimes people convince you that they can be your confidante ( why would anyone have a chat when they might be asleep). I feel it’s the darkness which helps you to get rid of the boundaries and set your soul free to talk about your deepest fears, regrets, fantasies, insecurities and all the other things which you never talk about.

This is the reason why people say that the 3 AM conversation is the best ones because you can feel them. 

            

                                     


                              Picture Credit : Aniket Bhandari 

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